Craigslist dating scam
I cast a wide net in my searches, looking up posts by straight or bisexual women between the ages of 18 and 35 who lived anywhere in Chicagoland — a large metropolitan area that's home to close to five million females.Most of the women wanted something very specific they couldn't find in their normal lives: Someone to help play out a particular fantasy, someone vastly older than them or someone of another race.It goes without saying that the content of this article is not intended for children or those made uncomfortable by such topics.
I began with a listing announcing myself to the women of my city.Very few of the women who were advertising seemed to be looking for anything I would consider a "normal encounter." Nevertheless, I tailored each response to whatever they were looking for.I typically wrote two or three paragraph replies and matched the tone of their own messages, then attached a couple of tasteful photos of myself.Each day I tried a different approach to see what would be most effective, though I never lied or posted fake photographs.One day my message was intended to be sweet and normal; I suggested starting with drinks and fun conversation to see if we had chemistry, then going back to my place to cuddle on the couch with a movie and see where that led. In yet another, I explicitly detailed sexual activities and used very aggressive language.