Advice american men dating brazilian women
Being blonde takes the experience to a whole new level.
"Being blonde in Brazil means you never have to wear jewelry," my German, blonde friend Teresa said to me one day, and I knew she had hit the nail on the head--I had stopped bothering with earrings.
It's hard to know why men don' t serenade me any more--maybe I am giving off a jaded, inaccessible vibe now. Brazilian men are legendary for their passion and persistence.
It's exciting to feel so wanted, their eyes can be so insistent in a way that North American eyes don't have the courage to be.
If a Brazilian finds a girl beautiful, he will tell her. This is the powerful, irresistible lure of the “Brasileiro” (Brazilian man).I’m talking real compliments, like “voce é muito linda” (you are so beautiful).I used to compare San Francisco men to Brazilian men and wish that San Francisco men were more forward, but now that I have seen the flip side, I've grown appreciate the subtlety and slowness with which American men say what they are feeling--they say less, but I trust them more. More subtle and trustworthy Brazilian men are rumored to exist. Then again, my ego is missing the outrageous flattery from Brazilian men now that I am not getting it.